Please feel free to reference any of the following as examples:
- Romantic comedies: dramatized, yet plausible! "The One" could be just around the corner. But first you have to be nearly hit by a cab, mugged on the street, and for good measure, have lipstick on your teeth. Even the movies don't spare us the humiliation.
- Engagement announcements which claim the couple met in a grocery store/dog park/bar. I don't believe you. Unless Amazon's online grocery section now has a chat function.
- Lottery winners. Not particularly for their sheer luck in winning, but rather the amazing ability of humans to find things to spend money on.
As cliche as it is, life is unpredictable. I hate to sound like a bumper sticker, but that resonates with me more than most life advice. Meticulous preparation often results in heavy anxiety, disappointment and a longing for an imagined life which was never meant to be. How many hours of my life I'll never get back that were spent practicing Oscar acceptance speeches? A staggering, scary amount.
A clear sign I definitely should have been enrolled in more after school activities..
A clear sign I definitely should have been enrolled in more after school activities..
So why do we allow ourselves to fabricate these fantastical ideas?
Simple answer: because it's fun! Nothing makes me quite as giddy as imagining Liam Hemsworth holding a bouquet of roses, so why apologize for any of it? The five year plan is poisonous to our psyche. Granted I'd prefer to know where my next rent cheque is coming from, but I dislike the inherent belief that we can cement future plans. Imagine the people who stockpiled a supply of AA batteries for their home phones feel right about now. Preparation can just as easily make you fall flat on your face.
Life is meant to be a constant gamble, otherwise we'd have been handed scripts in utero. I suppose some people may even live that kind of life - woe is you, future monarchs and heiresses - but that isn't the best use of human ingenuity.
Sign me up for a tiara anyways!
Security is nice, absolutely, but there's a reason we veer off the path - it either doesn't meet our expectations, or plain and simple bores us. To tears. Have you ever cried from the mundane ritual of life? I haven't, and I wouldn't wish such cruelty upon my worst enemy.
Keep yourselves up in the air lovely people,
Nicole